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Emma James, leading NLP Trainer and Therapist explains how when it comes to achieving your potential – there is no one else responsible for that success or failure but you. |
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| Author: Emma James Mabnlp Mabh Matlta Dip Ftst |
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What is it that has stopped you from achieving your goals?
Well, we can blame many things including finance, education, circumstance, social standing and so many other things.
Ultimately, the reasons why we have not achieved our goals or are floundering on the way towards them are solely down to us. The choices we made as we were growing up, the limitations we put on ourselves on what we were capable of and of course the conditions imposed on us from others in our formative years and what they thought we could achieve.
The difference is that no matter where you are in life right now, you can still make that difference. It is still possible to make your goals in life now become reality and be the person you always knew you could be.
During the NLP courses I teach, many students say they cannot have what they wish as they are restricted by family, money etc. In every instance we have always found a way either through negotiation, change, shift in perspective or pure motivation. It is far easier to find reasons not to create change and forwards movement into the unknown or out of your comfort zone and unless you do it – you will never know what you will have been capable of.
One gentleman I worked with on the Trisha Show was chronically overweight, depressed, unemployed and was at the point where he didn’t get out of bed at all. With a few small simple steps he began to get up, take interest in his future and is now running his own business and successfully enjoying a full family life, not to mention having lost 6 stone in the meantime. These changes were achieved purely using NLP techniques with him which brought him abruptly to take responsibility for how he reacted to the situations around him and creating a future he really wanted.
So, when you feel stuck and like you will never get to that place you want to be ask yourself these simple questions:
1) What would happen if I did achieve my goal?
2) What would I gain if I achieved my goal?
3) What would I lose if I achieved my goal?
4) What would I have to do or face, which I am not currently having to, if I achieve my goal?
See you on the other side of success!
Emma James
About Author
Emma James MABNLP MATLTA MAHYP, Dip FTST IHHTT
Emma is a leading NLP, Hypnosis and TLT Trainer in the UK with ground breaking new courses in NLP Sport. From the practical application of NLP, TLT and Hypnosis with many clients in many areas, Emma has observed massive life changing benefits and is devoted to the training, development and continuing evolvement of NLP.
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