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We always finds dificulty in handling the realtionships either in office or at home.I would like to recommend a simple thumb rule for handling the relationship and make them to feeel that you are great at them.Rule is SHUTDOWN YOUR MOUTH ,OPEN UP YOUR EARS and RECEPTIVE MIND

Author: Thilak

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We think most of the time that everything is known to us based on some good judgment done in past. At the same time, our mind warns us in some situations we proceed only on our past success instead of trying to know what else more need to know to do things in best way. Some times I surprise that many things are not known when time proves us in many parts of the life.We believe that what is done is the best ever done by anybody else around me. And which stops me to learn further, creating a sort of egoism, which makes me not to understand others view and not allowing lending my ears to them .

For a good communication to happen, We should have always a doubt on our ideas and believe that there could be a better idea from others too. It does not mean that person is not confident or he is pessimistic. It shows his maturity, not seeing that his idea alone should be the best to be executed but other ideas are also valued in the same way. It also brings out an effective communication between the people, inducing a democratic leadership style and also an environment where every individual is calibrated.

What stops us listen to others?

When we speak to people, by birth or by practice in a short time we jump in to conclusion and our speech continues to support our conclusion . I found that in this process we are not trying to convince the opposite person but our own premature conclusion. So our words are emerging out of the canned conclusion which is dead, not to the present. Can we stay to the present in our communication? And being spontaneous helps us to understand not the periphery but the core problem hidden.

Empathy

Putting yourself in other shoes is the key behavior or one of the vital skill helps in listening to others. Being empathetic is a good skill rather than being evaluative to others, which really stops us listening to the opposite.

To Practice the above skills to be a good communicator needs a great self-understanding, self-awareness. It is the only gateway for us to be good at others in all aspects.

About Author

Thilakar is basically an engineer by qualification and more passionate about human behaviour.Now working as Training manager in a mnanufacturing company in INDIA. And also Train people in different soft skills and life skills. Intersted in philosophy and great energy towards spiritual life.

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Listen to build Relationship