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I once acted for a woman who had four children, ALL of whom were the victims of extreme Domestic Violence. In fact, by the time she came to see me she had already lost her eldest son to suicide brought about through extreme and repeated abuse inflicted by his father. |
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| Author: Dr Dogood |
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Where a spouse is the victim of Domestic Violence, then the children are also. The psychological impact of knowing that one of your parents is abusing the other is not to be underestimated, no matter how old you are. The oldest son, who was seventeen years old, had jumped off the balcony of the top floor of a high-rise set of Units. He had taken the brunt of the abuse to try and protect his three younger sisters from it.
Mum was viciously abused and beaten – she couldn’t really help him. It all got too much and this young man decided that life was too horrible to bear. There was only one way I could protect the other three children and their mother. It meant not just obtaining a Court Order that the father be PROHIBITED from having ANY contact at all with them but physically relocating them and changing their identities. I remain thankful to the Principal and staff of the children’s school, the Lutheran Church and the Women’s Shelter for the extraordinary steps they all went to so that I could deliver on the promise that I made. Some months later the mother and children contacted me. They were so happy with their new life and couldn’t thank me enough.
Everyone was completely different. No longer were they tearful, fearful, stressed or depressed but relaxed, bright, witty and looking forward to life. I thought of the oldest boy and realised why he took his own life. He knew that a life lived in fear was bad enough………….but a life without hope was no life at all.
© Barry J. Roche (aka "Dr Dogood")
About Author
Barry Roche (aka "Dr Dogood") is the author of the ebook, “How To “Win” When Facing Divorce”. He is a former Family Law Specialist who wrote this book specifically for women. The book is available for purchase at http://www.divorceandwomen.com/help.html . Barry is also the author of a 90 page Manual on “How To Beat Your Financial Worries When You Don’t Have A Job” (also available for purchase at http://www.divorceandwomen.com/bookstore.html ).
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