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Gaining Self Confidence Through Self Hypnosis and Neuro-Linguistic Programming |
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Self confidence is a psychological and emotional state of mind which responds to our need for peer recognition and self-acceptance. It's one among the oldest and most studied concepts in psychology. |
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| Author: Alan B. Densky Ch |
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Contrarily, a lack of confidence might deter you from believing what you do and decide will in the end turn out as you had expected. It can thus prevent the development of executive skills, strategic and managerial capacities all of which are fundamental and mandatory things in the business world of today. The pre-occupation with how others will judge your work may also cause you to become too self-critical, which is something that will distract you from tasks you would otherwise be absolutely capable of performing.
Low self confidence will also affect your social life, because individuals with a low level of self confidence tend to remain in their "comfort zone" and are afraid of rejection. This is called social phobia and has a high level of co-morbidity with low self confidence, as well as other psychological conditions like depression. People with low self confidence are afraid of being judged by their peers and will avoid meeting new people, which can result in isolation and even less self confidence. Low self confidence is a vicious circle that is difficult to break.
On the other hand, because they believe in their own aptitudes, self-confident people are able to do what they feel is appropriate and don't feel the need for the approval of their peers. They are also able to inspire confidence: your boss, employees, customers, friends or relatives will be more likely to believe in you or in what you are telling them if you look self-confident.
Various experiences can cause low self confidence. New research indicates that education has a critical impact on the development of a child's self confidence. Corporal and emotional abuses in childhood are for example the worse for a person's self confidence, along with divorce or family conflicts. Overprotective parents may also be a reason for a child's social phobia and deter the independence mandatory to develop self confidence. Successes and failures, for example at school or in one's professional life, also play a major role: losing a job or failing a class are some of the different experiences that will have a negative impact your self confidence.
It is however possible to overcome these bad experiences and acquire confidence. The first step to develop self confidence is to learn to know yourself and what your strengths are. Acknowledging the fact that you are allowed not to be perfect and cannot be good in everything you do will help you gain self confidence. Accepting yourself as you are is the key to building self confidence. But improving self confidence also requires that you start taking risks and giving yourself credit for your accomplishments. This is very simple advice that will help you improve self confidence. You may also find plenty of books that will tell you how to build self confidence, however many of them are not reliable.
A lot people suffer from low self confidence or are only able to gain self confidence in one or a few areas of their lives because they always look for other people's approval and are afraid that they could fail. Several factors, including childhood traumas, can explain why some people can't have the wholesome life a self confident person could have. Those persons also don't always know how to gain self confidence. But gaining self confidence can now easily and effectively be done through hypnosis and NLP.
As we have seen low self confidence and social phobia can stem from bad experiences or unconscious fears which can be difficult to overcome with sheer self persuasion. Confidence hypnosis and NLP on the other hand are able to get to the unconscious part of our mind and modify belief systems to boost self confidence. They are effective tools that will help you face your fears and trust yourself to develop self confidence.
Self-Hypnosis for building self confidence has been in use for decades and has shown significant results in building self confidence. Once in a hypnotized state, getting to unconscious thoughts is a lot easier and, through hypnotic suggestion, you will be able to replace your negative thought patterns with positive ones to boost self confidence.
About Author
Alan B. Densky, CH is an NGH certified hypnotherapist. He offers effective NLP CD's for social phobias and confidence. His hypnosis for confidence CD's were independently reviewed in the UK. Visit his Neuro-VISION self hypnosis site and view free hypnosis videos.
http://www.neuro-vision.us/Products/AudioConfidenceHypnosisTapes.htm
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