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10 Tips For a Happy Marriage

Marriages are made in heaven, but then who is it that really causes marriages to end up in bitterness? We ourselves more often than not the real culprits in bringing differences and turning relationships sour?

Author: Apoorv Kalra

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Bad things happen in relationships, especially between spouses when egos clash and either of the partners refuses to forgive and forget small mistakes. Here are 10 tips that will surely help you keep your married life happy and eternal

1. Accepting your spouse the way he or she is – Quite often spouses are unhappy with each other because they did not turn out to be who they expected the other one to be. Some people have preconceived notion about how their spouses should look, behave, talk and even walk. Behavioural changes take years and any undue pressure may severely strain your relationships.

2. Find what makes your spouse happy – It’s very important to understand your partner and give them an opportunity to do what they enjoy the most. Believe it, if your partner is happy, he or she will always try to provide you with the same space and freedom which would ultimately lead to long lasting and satisfying relationship.

3. Share responsibilities – Share some household chores. If you are the wife, try and see if you can do something your husband is expected to do in the house. If you are the husband, try and help your wife around the house with some chores. Such things help improve bonding and shows that you care.

4. Respect each other – You must learn to respect your spouse and never allow bad words or anything that causes hurt to come between the two of you. Do not use loose words even when trying to resolve an argument.

5. Spend time together – Spend quality time together even if you happen to have kids. Spending quality time certainly doesn’t call for a long holiday in an exotic resort. A walk in the park where you can enjoy each other’s company without having to bother about household chores or personal or professional problems can go a long way in making your married life happier than ever.

6. Maintain a healthy physical relationship – In most families, even till today, discussing anything about sex is taboo. Many don’t understand the importance of maintaining a healthy physical relationship. Such a situation can often cause your partner to feel deprived of love and even force them to cheat on you.

7. Bring some changes in your behaviour – This is perhaps the toughest part but someone has to take the initiative. Start making small changes in your behaviour and attitude, especially if it makes your spouse any happier. Don’t wait for your partner to take the lead, go ahead and see how beautifully it affects your relationship.

8. Consult each other – In many relationships spouses tend to feel quite detached from each other, especially when either of them doesn’t open up or discusses issues that concern each other or their professional or personal lives. Try and discuss whatever you can, not only will it help increase your bonding but also reduce the stress on your mind.

9. Communicate – Learn the art of communication. Be communicative, nobody can completely comprehend the language of silence or read what is going through your mind unless you speak it out. Don’t hold back your thoughts and let them out so that your partner knows when something is wrong or when you want something to be done.

10. Empathise with each other – Try and see how life looks from each other’s shoes. If your spouse is hard working and is the family’s bread winner, appreciate him or her for doing that. If your partner is the house-maker, try and appreciate all the hard work, dedication and sacrifices that he or she has made to keep the home of your dreams just like you wanted it to be.
These are small things, which are often overlooked in a relationship when spouses tend to take each other for granted and do not understand that they are two different human beings who have to learn to adapt and cooperate.

About Author

My name is Apoorv Kalra and I like to write articles on wedding related matters such as catering, decoration, wedding planners, wedding clothes and fashion, love, respect and happiness in a relationship. You can find many of these articles at http://www.delhiWeddingPlanners.com

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10 Tips For a Happy Marriage